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Based on the true story
of Benjamin Prüfer and Sreykeo Sorvan.

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Phnom Penh, Cambodia

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You shoot

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So now you shoot the tree

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Peace, folks!

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Ben, I have a cool idea

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We'll take LSD

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at the Killing Fields. War tourism with ambition

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Shit man. They'll rip us off

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Shit, I have no money on me

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Got any water?

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Why would I have water?

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It's not my fault the fucking tuk-tuk died

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Look

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Somebody's there

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It's called Phnom

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Look, Ben

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Pretty women

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Wave

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You need to open up

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Reach out to women

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Here

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you're unaware of time

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Time's aware of you

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and catches you

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and you float in time

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We take time

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and hack it up

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You can't bank time

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Gnarly!

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Marie is sweet, eh?

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She never talks

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I mean visually

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Go in with me

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We're in Phnom Penh!

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The question is, my place or yours?

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I'm going to eat

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Thai chicken micken

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You coming? Yes

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You bought her a ring?!

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Are you nuts?

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They invest in gold jewelry

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For a rainy day

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They don't do that here

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Yes, they do

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No!

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They want you to marry them

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That's all

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You have no choice

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No choice, how?

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I didn't mean you, doobie doo

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Speaking of doobie

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What's up?

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Are you in love?

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Are you in love with Regula?

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I don't love somebody who's not there

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We're going home tomorrow!

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Hamburg, Germany - 6 weeks later

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Ed! Open the door!

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Who are you?

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I'm Ben. I live here

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Who are you?

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Lilli

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We expected you yesterday

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What happened?

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Bicycle accident

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We study together

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We had a welcome party for you

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The mattress is in the basement

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Or you could just...

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sleep on the sofa

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How does it work?

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Do you pay her?

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I send her money

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so she won't sell her body

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Can you afford that?

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No, he can't

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What's a hooker like in bed?

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It's nice

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What does that mean?

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She does the work and you enjoy it?

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With her it's nice

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Like us

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I see

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What'll you do now?

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An intern job

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What else?

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Lunch is in the cafeteria

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On the ground floor

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Here comes the boss

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Excuse me, Mr. Behr, just briefly

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This is my brother Ben

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Great. Hello

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It's a pleasure

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If you need anything

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just say so

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The door is always open

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Don't hold back

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I'm here for you

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I mean for

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questions, suggestions

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Speaking of which

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my brother spent 3 months in Asia

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Really?

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Cambodia

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Good

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This is Mr. Miillerhofen

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Who?

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Please come in

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This is Mr. Miillerhofen

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He thinks his building society

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has been embezzling

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from tenants for 15 years

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G' day

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Coffee or water?

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I've had my daily water quota

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Please...

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Right, a chair

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Thanks

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Miillerhofen!

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He killed me

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Miillerhofen is

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totally nuts, of course

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But if he's right, it could be a big scandal

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That would be great

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How're things at home? Sybille's well?

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If you mean Claudia

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she doesn't affect my home life

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Ah. No gray area

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I keep office and home separate

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So only during office hours?

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It's none of your business who I'm banging

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Got it?

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I get you a job and you fuck with me?

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No worries

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I've got other problems

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Claudia is only here 'til Christmas

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I know it. So does she

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We're all adults

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So it's all under control

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I met a woman in Cambodia

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You send her money?

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She's my girlfriend

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Those women have lots of men

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who send money

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Bet she does too

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She can't afford love

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sorry

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Tell me about Cambodia

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What?

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How do people live there?

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They constantly eat

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and offer you food. Food's important

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They're never alone

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They're always in a group. Even asleep

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The whole family sleeps in one room

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If they had to sleep alone

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they'd feel weird

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They even use

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the same toothbrush

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I send her 150 a month

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In return, she got a new job

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Doing what?

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Working at a beer garden

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On commission

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If more customers drink her brand

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she earns more

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And no men?

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No. That's our contract

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Ah. Contract

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Your head back in Cambodia?

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What does life cost in Phnom Penh?

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In a factory

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she'd earn n 50 or 60 a month

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But she takes care of her family

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What does her mother do?

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She gambles

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Cards

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What's up?

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Did something happen?

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Could you have caught it?

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Yes

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You have to get tested

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I know

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Listen, your 3 months are almost up

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You'll get Claudia's editor's job

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Sign the contract today

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Then we'll insure you against disability

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You want to hire me as a staff editor?

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You're mixing private life and the office again

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You're my brother

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It doesn't get any more private

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I don't care

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Shit!

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Shit!

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Shit!

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Shit!

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How are you?

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Haven't seen you in ages

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I'm fine. You?

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Not bad

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Tandem training program

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3 months office, 3 months school

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I'm in comptrolling

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at Hapag Lloyd

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A great company

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You know logistics

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is growing 10% per year?

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So they need people badly

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The money's right too

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1000 euros a month

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They want people to look good

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When I finish my degree

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I'll have a job waiting

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And you?

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I'm getting an HIV test

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I'm sorry

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No worries

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I'll cross my fingers

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All the best

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See you

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What's that?

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For my new visa

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You're going back?

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Sreykeo is HIV positive

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And you?

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I get the results in 5 days

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Then I go to Cambodia

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What if you're positive?

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I'll still go

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That's just so romantic

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Just romantic or plain stupid

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Should I get tested?

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The toothbrush

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I don't think so, but I'll let you know

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Did I miss something?

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Think about it

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Once she starts the meds

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she has to keep taking them

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Forever

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If she stops

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the virus could become resistant

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But in Cambodia only Stavudine

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is available

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With 1000 side effects

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Nerve damage to the arms and legs

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It's not even used in Germany anymore

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It's well tolerated at first

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but less effective and those side effects

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Trust me, AZT is much better

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AZT is not available in Cambodia

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I want the supplier's name

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All the many HIV cases here

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take Stavudine

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Why should this girl

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get anything else?

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She's my girlfriend

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We'll gladly enroll your girlfriend

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in our program

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but if our drugs aren't good enough

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I know you can get AZT from the supplier

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Be reasonable

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Stavudine is always available

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but AZT...

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That's why I need a reliable source

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I'll buy them but where!

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That's not our job

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I don't give a shit!

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Give me the damn address

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We're building wells in rural areas of Cambodia

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so our aid worker

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can't join your HIV program here in Phnom Penh

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No problem

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You can buy the drugs for her

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directly from our importer

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That's possible?

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Of course

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Oh, shit

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Your boyfriend can't work any more

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He has stomach ache very weak

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But...

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I love him. And he loves me

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We'll keep that in mind

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Okey dokey in Cambodia?

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More or less

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This is Vanessa

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Hello, Vanessa

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You two study together?

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No. Why?

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Whatever

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I'll just close this

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What about Lilli?

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Vanessa is less stressful

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And you?

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UN ambassador for human rights and
development aid?

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How's things in Phnom Penh?

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Thanks, Dr. House. Everything's fine

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Her viral load is dropping

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Her family wants me to

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marry her and farm rice

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01:13:25,320 --> 01:13:26,890
So now you don't know what to do?

302
01:13:27,320 --> 01:13:28,651
No, I just don't know

303
01:13:29,200 --> 01:13:30,042
I thought

304
01:13:30,240 --> 01:13:32,527
it would work out, but there's no solution

305
01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:35,445
I go there, I come back

306
01:13:35,880 --> 01:13:38,645
I go again. I'm out of money

307
01:13:39,760 --> 01:13:40,647
Right

308
01:13:41,520 --> 01:13:42,487
What do you think?

309
01:13:45,760 --> 01:13:46,761
Make a list

310
01:13:49,760 --> 01:13:51,603
What's on the pro side?

311
01:13:52,480 --> 01:13:54,482
Life with her will never be boring.

312
01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:56,001
Sex?

313
01:13:59,960 --> 01:14:00,643
Really?

314
01:14:00,960 --> 01:14:01,643
Yes

315
01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:05,889
She's special, that's a fact

316
01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:06,882
What else?

317
01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:09,286
She loves me as lam

318
01:14:10,320 --> 01:14:11,970
All women say they love you

319
01:14:12,080 --> 01:14:13,445
for who you are

320
01:14:13,640 --> 01:14:15,005
OK, one plus. Con?

321
01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:17,323
She lives in Asia, I live in Europe

322
01:14:17,520 --> 01:14:19,443
That could be a pro...

323
01:14:19,600 --> 01:14:20,601
So, con?

324
01:14:21,240 --> 01:14:22,571
You can barely communicate

325
01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:23,841
She costs money

326
01:14:24,040 --> 01:14:26,202
She can't, or rather shouldn't, have children

327
01:14:26,880 --> 01:14:28,803
She's a Cambodian ex-prostitute

328
01:14:28,920 --> 01:14:31,651
who is going to die of AIDS. That's a fact

329
01:14:34,920 --> 01:14:37,321
Current medical lore says

330
01:14:37,560 --> 01:14:39,642
she'll live another 25 years, max

331
01:14:41,480 --> 01:14:43,960
if she gets the right medication

332
01:14:44,600 --> 01:14:46,921
Now consider your age

333
01:15:40,480 --> 01:15:41,720
Damn, I don't believe it

334
01:15:44,560 --> 01:15:45,527
German?

335
01:15:46,920 --> 01:15:47,887
Good in Phnom Penh?

336
01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:49,327
You speak German?

337
01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:50,806
Yes. Good

338
01:15:50,960 --> 01:15:51,927
Happy

339
01:15:52,200 --> 01:15:53,326
Happy

340
01:15:53,480 --> 01:15:54,845
Your turn

341
01:16:02,720 --> 01:16:03,403
Listen, Ben

342
01:16:03,600 --> 01:16:05,921
I'll send you to Asia at the magazine's
expense

343
01:16:06,040 --> 01:16:08,486
You'll do an article on luxury hotels

344
01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:11,331
and meanwhile, you write your story

345
01:16:12,280 --> 01:16:14,726
Young backpacker meets fallen girl...

346
01:16:15,600 --> 01:16:18,365
You know, AIDS and so on

347
01:16:19,640 --> 01:16:21,529
All for good reason

348
01:16:22,880 --> 01:16:24,530
We'll pay separately

349
01:16:24,640 --> 01:16:26,244
and you keep the copyright

350
01:16:26,960 --> 01:16:27,882
You should invest

351
01:16:28,000 --> 01:16:28,887
to get ahead

352
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:29,649
I can't do that

353
01:16:29,720 --> 01:16:30,926
Of course you can

354
01:16:32,080 --> 01:16:33,491
Sell it elsewhere and cash in

355
01:16:36,040 --> 01:16:38,327
I have to ask Sreykeo. It's her story too

356
01:16:38,440 --> 01:16:40,090
Do that. But don't wait long

357
01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:42,484
BTW those are mine

358
01:16:44,840 --> 01:16:46,444
Yeah. Got it

359
01:17:03,600 --> 01:17:04,283
Shit

360
01:17:05,080 --> 01:17:06,366
Want to watch?

361
01:17:08,840 --> 01:17:10,683
otherwise we'll watch porn

362
01:17:10,880 --> 01:17:12,245
During Advent?

363
01:17:13,240 --> 01:17:14,890
Especially during Advent!

364
01:17:22,640 --> 01:17:24,324
From a German

365
01:17:27,440 --> 01:17:28,851
You speak German well

366
01:17:30,200 --> 01:17:33,090
And the German man lives here?

367
01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:34,247
No

368
01:18:45,880 --> 01:18:48,087
She opens the door to the disco

369
01:18:48,360 --> 01:18:51,443
looks around, sees a man at the bar

370
01:18:52,800 --> 01:18:57,840
goes right to him, says buy me a glass of bubbly

371
01:18:58,440 --> 01:19:02,286
I thought, OK, two glasses of champagne

372
01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:05,362
Then she drank it down

373
01:19:05,640 --> 01:19:07,642
in one gulp

374
01:19:08,040 --> 01:19:11,328
and said, now I want to dance

375
01:19:11,520 --> 01:19:13,363
I don't like to dance

376
01:19:13,480 --> 01:19:16,882
But we danced. We even danced well

377
01:19:18,640 --> 01:19:21,086
And ever since I've held her close

378
01:19:22,640 --> 01:19:24,165
Two years later, Henry came along

379
01:19:24,440 --> 01:19:27,091
We got married and soon you arrived

380
01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:29,808
That's our story

381
01:19:31,960 --> 01:19:34,850
Your mother always knew what she wanted

382
01:20:25,360 --> 01:20:26,646
It's for you

383
01:20:27,680 --> 01:20:29,569
She called me poppa

384
01:20:31,560 --> 01:20:33,210
Why is he going outside?

385
01:20:33,800 --> 01:20:35,609
For privacy. Let him be

386
01:22:18,160 --> 01:22:19,082
You're beautiful

387
01:22:23,160 --> 01:22:24,161
Thank you

388
01:22:34,560 --> 01:22:35,846
Your French is excellent

389
01:22:36,320 --> 01:22:37,970
I'm a teacher

390
01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:42,769
Would you like to sleep with me tonight?

391
01:23:13,200 --> 01:23:14,167
Take the money!

392
01:23:16,240 --> 01:23:17,366
I've got lots of money

393
01:23:19,240 --> 01:23:20,730
Why won't you look at me?

394
01:23:22,520 --> 01:23:24,045
You agreed to come with me

395
01:23:24,800 --> 01:23:26,450
So don't make a fuss now

396
01:23:27,520 --> 01:23:28,487
What's wrong?

397
01:23:29,640 --> 01:23:31,085
I gave you money

398
01:23:31,880 --> 01:23:33,291
Don't make me use force

399
01:23:34,240 --> 01:23:36,720
Or would you rather go with foreigners?

400
01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:41,521
It's the best hotel in Kuala Lumpur

401
01:23:41,720 --> 01:23:44,644
Wear something nice, write the article

402
01:23:44,840 --> 01:23:48,162
and don't forget the hotel is paying for
everything

403
01:23:48,360 --> 01:23:49,282
While you're there

404
01:23:49,480 --> 01:23:52,370
you can figure out how to write your own story

405
01:23:52,600 --> 01:23:53,726
Got it?

406
01:23:54,840 --> 01:23:56,569
Loan hand in expense receipts?

407
01:23:56,680 --> 01:23:59,331
Receipts for AIDS drugs would not go
over well here

408
01:23:59,840 --> 01:24:00,921
Get it?

409
01:24:04,800 --> 01:24:06,165
I can't do it

410
01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:09,651
We just split up. I can't just go and
pretend it's fine

411
01:24:09,880 --> 01:24:12,167
and then cash in on our story. That's bad

412
01:24:12,360 --> 01:24:14,647
Break-ups happen

413
01:24:14,800 --> 01:24:16,723
but it's a good story

414
01:24:18,320 --> 01:24:20,163
You can't just leave her behind

415
01:24:20,920 --> 01:24:22,365
You'll feel guilty your whole life

416
01:24:23,200 --> 01:24:24,611
that you just cut her off

417
01:24:25,920 --> 01:24:27,081
as if it hadn't happened

418
01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:29,448
First promises, then bam

419
01:24:29,960 --> 01:24:31,166
I didn't make promises

420
01:24:31,280 --> 01:24:32,281
So you think

421
01:24:32,720 --> 01:24:34,484
like big brother here

422
01:24:35,440 --> 01:24:36,805
But she might see it differently

423
01:24:37,240 --> 01:24:38,401
Be honest

424
01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:40,923
You really made no promises?

425
01:24:42,000 --> 01:24:45,049
I promised I'd help and I did that

426
01:24:46,520 --> 01:24:47,567
What do you think?

427
01:24:47,640 --> 01:24:48,209
Me?

428
01:24:50,160 --> 01:24:51,650
I don't see that as a promise

429
01:24:52,200 --> 01:24:53,008
More...

430
01:24:53,320 --> 01:24:54,685
like an agreement or a contract

431
01:24:55,280 --> 01:24:55,849
I see

432
01:24:56,160 --> 01:24:58,242
And then one side just cancels it?

433
01:24:58,920 --> 01:25:01,002
She still works as a bar-girl

434
01:25:01,560 --> 01:25:03,642
although I send money. She broke our
contract

435
01:25:03,960 --> 01:25:05,246
It was your contract

436
01:25:05,440 --> 01:25:06,771
By German law. Hamburg jurisdiction

437
01:25:06,960 --> 01:25:08,883
That contract applies to her?

438
01:25:09,520 --> 01:25:10,851
What security does she have?

439
01:25:10,960 --> 01:25:12,644
Should she wait for you all her life?

440
01:25:13,040 --> 01:25:14,451
At least be real

441
01:25:15,920 --> 01:25:17,570
Go lay your cards on the table

442
01:25:18,320 --> 01:25:19,845
This to and fro is pointless

443
01:25:21,640 --> 01:25:23,369
End the relationship with dignity

444
01:25:23,720 --> 01:25:25,643
Then everybody knows what's what

445
01:25:26,480 --> 01:25:27,811
that's her right

446
01:33:23,640 --> 01:33:26,849
Phnom Penh, Cambodia

447
01:33:46,040 --> 01:33:46,962
Heitmann speaking

448
01:33:47,080 --> 01:33:48,002
Ditto

449
01:33:48,640 --> 01:33:49,801
Are you mad?

450
01:33:50,800 --> 01:33:52,040
Totally?

451
01:33:53,560 --> 01:33:55,369
First you want to go, then you don't

452
01:33:55,480 --> 01:33:57,244
Now you break off the trip?

453
01:33:57,560 --> 01:33:59,164
I need time to for my book

454
01:33:59,280 --> 01:34:00,611
I'm writing our story

455
01:34:01,400 --> 01:34:03,880
The hotel asked where you are

456
01:34:04,080 --> 01:34:06,003
It's totally embarrassing

457
01:34:06,200 --> 01:34:07,645
including for me

458
01:34:07,800 --> 01:34:09,643
They'll fire you

459
01:34:09,920 --> 01:34:11,684
I don't care

460
01:34:11,840 --> 01:34:13,444
I'll find a job in Cambodia

461
01:35:00,160 --> 01:35:04,848
Today Benjamin and Sreykeo
live in Cambodia and Germany.

462
01:35:05,040 --> 01:35:10,331
They have a son. He is healthy.

463
01:40:01,320 --> 01:40:06,320
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